Upcoming Event at New Renaissance Bookshop

Join me on Saturday, June 16, 2012, from 10:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. for a stimulating, interactive workshop.  We will critically examine our beliefs, attitudes, experiences and feelings around loss.  Then we will look at nature to see what nature does with death.  Nothing is wasted; we as a culture have forgotten how to deal with death.  This workshop will provide a point of focus, a mirror for us to examine our own ideas and beliefs surrounding death.  Come prepared to share, explore, question, challenge, talk.

Please call 503.224.4929 to register for “Why is it so hard to talk about death and dying?”  $20 investment.  New Renaissance Bookshop is located at 1338 NW 23rd Avenue, Portland, OR.  All new material!!

After Death … What about the Body?

Old gravestones overrun by a tree“Here we lie by consent, after 57 years 2 months and 2 days sojourning through life awaiting nature’s immutable laws to return us back to the elements of the universe of which we were first composed.”  –headstone of a husband and wife, 1887

To return our bodies back to the earth after death requires a number of decisions and an awareness of what options are available for consideration. Whether the choice is a burial in the earth, which allows for the natural decomposition process if buried in such a way as to promote its decomposition, or a burning of the body which immediately returns its components to minerals, is a personal choice. Either choice benefits the earth, if returned to the earth, by becoming nutrients for new life.  Keeping cremated (burned) remains in an urn which sits on a mantle does not benefit life.

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Saturday, March 10, 2012 from 1-3:15 p.m.

Actively explore why it is hard to talk about death, dying, and end of life in this 2-1/4 hour workshop. The premise underlying this workshop is described in “The Monster under the Bed,” an earlier blog. In returning to right relationship with Death, we will also experience visuals of the Biofeedback series, created by local artist Ariel Kaplan. This series was created as encouragement to take a gentle look at the every-day deaths in nature.

Workshop will be held at RoseSprings Center for the Healing Arts, 5315 NE Elam Young Parkway West, Hillsboro, OR.  www.rosespringscenter.com.  Their phone number is 503.696.9101.  To register for this workshop, please call  503.360.8086  $20

Church, civic groups, home health care providers, and individuals who have a personal interest and would like to host this presentation may contact 503.360.8086 for more information. This workshop is the first in a series designed to help people become more comfortable with the topic and be able to respond with empathy to another person who needs to talk.

UPCOMING

Come see me at the Portland Healing Arts Fair on Sunday, February 26, 2012, from 11 a.m. – 5 p.m.  Fair entrance fee of $10.

NW Neighborhood Cultural Center, 1819 NW Everett Street in downtown Portland  97209. The Cultural Center is just a few blocks from the Streetcar and MAX (JELD-WEN Field).  Please visit the TriMet web site to plan your visit using public transportation.

Local artist Ariel Kaplan will be unveiling her new photographic series, which was created with the intention to support a positive shift in our attitudes towards death.  Stop by my booth to enter a drawing for one of her perceptive glimpses into nature.  And, sign up for one of my upcoming workshops!

Event: Unwrapping the Unspoken Mystique around Death & Dying

Thursday, January 5, 2012, 7-8:30 p.m.
New Renaissance Bookshop
1338 NW 23rd Avenue
Portland, OR
503.224.4929 to Register $15

Leaving the physical body with conscious awareness is a new choice at end of life. This choice is for anyone who wants to maintain their mental clarity through their final breath, who wants to be free of all the anxiety baggage, who wants this time in their life to take on a joyful expectancy.

We can begin the preparation process together. How and where we are raised often influences our beliefs, attitudes, experiences, and feelings around loss. In this 1-1/2 hour interactive workshop, we will critically examine those beliefs, etc., putting words to areas of loss we may never have consciously thought about.

I have a vision that will shift how people view dying, from an avoidance perspective to one of expectant preparation.  ~ Barbara Rose Kaplan, M. Ed.

The Monster under the Bed

What is it about the birth of a baby that is so joyous?  New Life.  Purity.  Amazing Possibilities.  New Beginnings.  Family.  Connections.  When I was pregnant, strangers held doors open for me and carried my grocery bags.  They gave up their seats so I could sit down.  After the baby was born, family and friends and neighbors came to visit.  Cards and flowers flowed in.  Grandparents knitted sweaters and caps and mittens and blankets.  Savings accounts were set up for the baby’s future education.  And the celebrations continued with birthdays and in between.  No one held back!

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…but my Loved One’s Sleeping

A chaplain’s first priority is always the patient, no matter who makes the request for a visit.  Sometimes it is the patient herself who makes the request, sometimes a doctor or nurse, sometimes a family member, and sometimes on my rounds, I would simply hear distress in a room and stop to see if I could help.

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Event: “Unwrapping the Unspoken Mystique…”

Would you like another choice at end of life — to be inwardly aware and in control of your experience?

How and where we are raised often influences our beliefs, attitudes, experiences, and feelings around loss.  We will critically examine those beliefs, etc., putting words to areas of loss we may never have consciously thought about.  Throughout this 1-1/2 hour program, we will begin to “unwrap the unspoken mystique around death and dying.”  This is the first step toward learning to consciously withdraw from the physical body at transition.

Saturday, October 15, 2011, 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m.  $17       

Multnomah Arts Center
7688 SW Capitol Highway
Portland, OR 97219.
For more information or to register, please call 503.360.8086.

To be remembered

Visiting my motherDo you have a family member or a friend with Alzheimer’s?  I know how painful it can be to watch the person you love change before your eyes into someone you don’t recognize.  I hear about the frustration and grief my friends experience as they try to find a piece of the mother they remember.  To be remembered as their mother’s daughter.

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